How Not to Be a Victim with Election Results (or anything else)

You Are Not A Victim

Many people I know emerged from this past week’s United States National election results feeling victimized. I get that, I truly do. For years my first instinct has been to blame others for what they have done to me or, at the least, to feel rejected, attacked, and unvalued. It runs deep and these thoughts in my head feel very real.  Xenophobia, caste-ism, racism, sexism, trans, and homophobia are not just stories, they are identifiable acted-out patterns in American (and world history) life.  So it can be tempting to determine that the results of this election were caused mostly by these patterns, that the majority of Americans voted out of hatred for the other Americans.

The key to not being a victim is to know my part in an outcome. If I don’t have a part, then there’s nothing I can do and it’s terribly disheartening. I must find my part in anything around me. How to do that? One place to start is to examine my thoughts. Byron Katie has a practice called “the work” which she starts with a “judge your neighbor” worksheet to really get at what or who I am angry at and what are the thoughts in my head that are plaguing me. After zeroing in on the hurting thoughts, I use her “4 questions” worksheet to examine any thought that bothers me until I don’t have to believe it or focus on it to my detriment. Try it, play with it. You can use this for anybody or anything that is bothering you and it takes minutes.

When I find that and don’t have to believe the thought that I’m a victim then I have agency again and I can remember that I am a shining star for you to see what your life can truly be (to paraphrase Earth, Wind & Fire — we sang this in the Center for Spiritual Awareness’s New Thought Gospel Choir this week and it was transformative.)

Now: Finding and Articulating the Democratic Party’s Part in This Election:

It is my firm belief that hatred of “the other” has fewer places to grow when people have housing, healthcare, job and food security. So, those of us who are envisioning and working for a world that works for everyone, would do well to remember that. I believe that the real reason Joe Biden was able to win in 2020 was that Bernie Sanders was winning the Democratic field with a message that really connected with people in economic pain (from the pandemic and otherwise). This message was not consistently or well-articulated in 2024 and ultimately, the Democratic party lost despite its enthusiastic upbeat message. If you want to know more about what I think, see this recent article by Bernie Sanders in The Boston Globe below.  I can’t say it better.

The Democratic Party Must Decide: Which Side Is It On?
By Bernie Sanders
November 10, 2024

The results of the 2024 election have confirmed a reality that is too frequently denied by Democratic Party leaders and strategists: The American working class is angry — and for good reason.

They want to know why the very rich are getting much richer, and the CEOs of major corporations make almost 300 times more than their average employees, while weekly wages remain stagnant and 60 percent of Americans live paycheck to paycheck.

They want to know why corporate profits soar while companies shut down factories in America and move to low-wage countries.

They want to know why the food industry enjoys record-breaking profits, while they can’t afford their grocery bills.

They want to know why they can’t afford to go to a doctor or pay for their prescription drugs, and worry about going bankrupt if they end up in a hospital.

Donald Trump won this election because he tapped into that anger.

Did he address any of these serious issues in a thoughtful or meaningful way? Absolutely not.

What he did do was divert the festering anger in our country at a greedy and out-of-touch corporate elite into a politics that served his political goals and will end up further enriching his fellow billionaires.

Trump’s “genius” is his ability to divide the working class so that tens of millions of Americans will reject solidarity with their fellow workers and pave the way for huge tax breaks for the very rich and large corporations.

While Trump did talk about capping credit card interest rates at 10 percent, and a new trade policy with China, his fundamental explanation as to why the working class was struggling was that millions of illegal immigrants have invaded America and that we are now an “occupied country.”

In his pathologically dishonest world, undocumented immigrants are illegally participating in our elections and voting for Democrats. They are creating massive amounts of crime, driving wages down, and taking our jobs. They are getting free health care and other benefits that are denied to American citizens. They are even eating our pets.

That explanation is grossly racist, cruel, and fallacious. But it is an explanation.

And what do the Democrats have to say about the crises facing working families? What is their full-throated explanation, pounded away day after day in the media, in the halls of Congress, and in town meetings throughout the country as to why tens of millions of workers, in the richest country on earth, are struggling to put food on the table or pay the rent? Where is the deeply felt outrage that we are the only major country on earth not to guarantee health care for all as a human right while insurance and drug companies make huge profits?

How do they explain supporting billions of dollars in military aid to the right-wing extremist government of Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu, which has created an unprecedented humanitarian disaster in Gaza that is causing massive malnutrition and starvation for thousands of children?

In my view, the Democrats lost this election because they ignored the justified anger of working-class America and became the defenders of a rigged economic and political system.

This election was largely about class and change and the Democrats, in both cases, were often on the wrong side. As Jimmy Williams Jr., the president of the Painters Union, said, “The Democratic Party has continued to fail to prioritize a strong, working-class message that addresses issues that really matter to workers. The party did not make a positive case for why workers should vote for them, only that they were not Donald Trump. That’s not good enough anymore!”

As an Independent member of the US Senate, I caucus with the Democrats. In that capacity, I have been proud to work with President Biden on one of the most ambitious pro-worker agendas in modern history.

We passed the American Rescue Plan to pull us out of the COVID-19 economic downturn; made historic investments in rebuilding our infrastructure and in transforming our energy system; began the process of rebuilding our manufacturing base; lowered the cost of prescription drugs and forgave student debt for five million Americans. Biden promised to be the most progressive president since FDR and, on domestic issues, he kept his word.

But, unlike FDR, these achievements are almost never discussed within the context of a grossly unfair economy that continues to fail ordinary Americans. Yes. In the past few years we have made some positive changes. We must acknowledge, however, that what we’ve done is nowhere near enough.

In 1936, in his second inaugural address, FDR spoke not only of his administration’s enormous achievements in combating the Great Depression, but of the painful economic realities that millions of Americans were still experiencing.

Roosevelt’s words remain relevant today: “I see millions of families trying to live on incomes so meager that the pall of family disaster hangs over them day by day… I see millions denied education, recreation, and the opportunity to better their lot and the lot of their children… I see one-third of a nation ill-housed, ill-clad, ill-nourished.”

Of course, the world is today profoundly different than it was in 1936. We are not in an economic depression. Unemployment is relatively low. People are not facing starvation.

But the Democratic leadership must recognize that, in a rapidly changing economy, working families face an enormous amount of economic pain, anxiety and hopelessness — and they want change. The status quo is not working for them.

In politics you can’t fight something with nothing. The Democratic Party needs to determine which side it is on in the great economic struggle of our times, and it needs to provide a clear vision as to what it stands for. Either you stand with the powerful oligarchy of our country, or you stand with the working class. You can’t represent both.

While Democrats will be in the minority in the Senate and (probably) the House in the new Congress, they will still have the opportunity to bring forth a strong legislative agenda that addresses the needs of working families.

If Republicans choose to vote those bills down, the American working class will learn quickly enough as to which party represents them, and which party represents corporate greed.

In my view, here are some of the working class priorities that Democrats must fight for:

• • We must end Citizens United and stop billionaires from buying elections.

• • We must raise the $7.25 federal minimum wage to a living wage — at least $17 an hour.

• • We must pass the Protecting the Right to Organize Act to make it easier for workers to form unions and end illegal union busting

• • We must protect senior citizens by increasing Social Security benefits and extending the solvency of the program by lifting the cap on taxable income.

• • We must bring back defined benefit pension plans so that workers can retire with security.

• • We must do what every other wealthy nation does and guarantee health care to all as a human right, beginning with the expansion of Medicare to cover home health care, dental, hearing, and vision.

• • We must cut prescription drug prices in half, no more than is paid in other countries.

• • We must provide guaranteed paid family and medical leave.

• • We must guarantee equal pay for equal work.

• • We must create fair trade policies that work for workers, not just corporate CEOs.

• • We must build 3 million units of low income and affordable housing.

• • We must make public colleges and universities tuition free, childcare affordable for all, and strengthen public education by paying teachers the salaries they deserve.

• • We must adopt a progressive tax system which addresses the massive income and wealth inequality we are experiencing by demanding that the very wealthy start paying their fair share of taxes.
• • We must save taxpayer dollars by ending the massive waste, fraud and abuse that exists in the Pentagon.

These are extremely popular ideas. The Democratic Party would do well to listen to the clear directive of American voters, and deliver. The simple fact is: if you stand with working people, they will stand with you. In my view, if Democrats deliver on an agenda like this, they can win back the working class of our country and the White House.