
The book is part memoir, part investigative journalism into the worst and best of 12 steps, residential treatment and the harm reduction model of treatment. Maia is clear that 12-step programs saved her life. And Maia is clear that abuse and harm is done in the name of treatment by almost exclusively relying on 12-step programs and “spiritual solutions” as well placing full responsibility on the addict for recovery from what is called a disease.
My most important take away from the book is this: while 12-step groups provide free, structured, self-led support and a spiritual solution that can be a key component of recovery from addiction, they also have some cultural biases and downsides that don’t help every addict hence may not be appropriate for a medical setting.
Honestly I could write a whole book about the questions this book raises (and only partially answers):
- If addiction is a disease, and not a moral failing, why does 12-step culture use so much shame and blame as a technique for getting people to stop?
- If addiction is a spiritual problem with a spiritual solution, how is it also a disease?
- Since doctors and medicine virtually provided no hope for treatment of addiction prior to 12 step, why should we trust them now?
- Follow-up to that question, how has medicine evolved in its treatment of addiction?
- If psychological components of addiction treatment, such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), use thought examination techniques popularized by 12-step groups, why should anyone pay a therapist when they can get it for free?
- How is it ethical for residential treatment centers to charge you or insurance companies a whole lot of money just to send you to free 12 step groups?
- Does it make sense for a medical model to refer you to a “spiritual solution” for what appears to be a disease?
- If addiction IS a disease AND has a spiritual solution, then why is there not a spiritual solution for other diseases?
- Follow up to that questions, and why aren’t medical centers referring you to spiritual solutions for those?
- Are there some personality types that respond better to the radical responsibility model of 12 steps than others?
- How can it be that it is “not my fault” that I’m an addict and “only I can solve it” by doing “my work”?
I think this is going to have to be a multi-part series because I have so many thoughts on every one of these questions. Stay tuned…